
Then His brothers and His mother came, and standing outside they sent to Him, calling Him. 32 And a multitude was sitting around Him; and they said to Him, “Look, Your mother and Your brothers are outside seeking You.” 33 But He answered them, saying, “Who is My mother, or My brothers?” 34 And He looked around in a circle at those who sat about Him, and said, “Here are My mother and My brothers! 35 “For whoever does the will of God is My brother and My sister and mother.”
– Mark 3:31-35 (NKJV)
There are two groups of people seeking Jesus. The first group is his actual mother and brothers who are outside the house who are calling for him. They probably want to tell/ advise him on what to do. The second group is the crowd at his feet that has been listening to him. Jesus looks at the crowd and says they are his mother and brothers. The distinction that he makes between the two groups is simple… “Whoever does the will of God.”
Jesus doesn’t show any favoritism for his family here. Whatever they want, if it is not the will of God, they can wait. He will not be manipulated. When their will and God’s will collide, it’s God’s will that matters. This is an important thing to grasp.
Throughout church history people have often pulled in their pagan prechristian beliefs into their practice either knowingly or unknowingly. Before the gospel made such an impact in Ephesus, many of the people practiced “magic.” Magic in that day consisted of getting beings or entities to do your bidding for you and you would often have to manipulate them into action. So you might call on an entity that had favor with whatever entity you wanted to act for you so you would use the name of one to get the other to do what you wanted. Unfortunately through a part of history and in some places today people try and “manipulate” Jesus to bend to their will and they will pray to someone like Mary (not that you can or should pray to dead people, you shouldn’t.) and ask her to ask Jesus to do something. The logic is pretty convincing for some people… Jesus has to do what his mom says, right? Wrong. These verses are helpful to know that Jesus in his humanity can’t and won’t be manipulated by his relatives, the saints or anyone. We should all seek God’s will, not the other way around.
This is what we’ve been praying every day, “Guide us in your will.” That’s a Christian prayer! We’re asking God to show us what He wants us to do! Certainly we’ve shared in prayer about what we want, need and feel, but at the end of it all we’re really asking, “Lord show us your will.”
Father, We love you and want to grow in knowledge of you and your word. What a grace it is to know that we cannot manipulate you to our will. We often do not even know the full situation. We can trust you and your promises because they come from you. Please guide us in your will and direction for us. In Jesus Name, Amen.

